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Q: I have never been a bridesmaid. The only role I’ve ever been at a wedding was a guest. Now that I am engaged, I have no idea what my bridesmaids are supposed to pay for and what I am supposed to provide.

A: Being a bridesmaid can be very rewarding for your loved ones, but it definitely doesn’t come without a price. Here is a list of the things that they will need and suggestions of who pays for what.

  • Dress: This is an expense that each bridesmaid covers.
  • Shoes: Usually bridesmaids cover this expense. Sometimes brides will make the purchase for them as a gift depending on their funds.
  • Jewelry/Purse: This is also something that brides may purchase as a gift to their bridal party if it’s in their budget.
  • Hair: This is an area that each bridesmaid covers whether they do their hair themselves or get it done professionally.
  • Makeup: You can decide if you want to pay for each bridesmaid to have professional makeup applied. If it’s not in your budget but you plan to have your makeup done professionally, inquire with the artist to see how much they charge for the bridal party members. Whether you want to make it a requirement for your girls to wear makeup is up to you, but be aware that not everyone may have the funds to have it done professionally.
  • Bouquet: This is apart of your floral budget. Keep in mind that the more bridesmaids you have, the higher your floral budget will be.
  • Limousines: If you are having limos, you are responsible for getting your bridal party to the ceremony/reception venues. However, they are responsible for their transportation at the end of the event.

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