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We have great news to share! As some of you may remember you can now find our Ask a Planner section in the new Atlanta Occasions magazine. For those of you that are not local, have no fear we will be hosting your weekly questions on the Atlanta Occasions blog. Be sure to check out this week’s topic on Mixologists. …

Ask a Planner: Soloist for our first dance song?

Q: We really want one of our good friends from college who also introduced us to each other, to sing our first dance song at the reception. It will mean something to us since she is responsible for us meeting plus she has an incredible voice! Are there any pros or cons of asking her to sing live at our …

Ask a planner: Keeping Your Diamond Sparkly

Now that you’re engaged, the first thing people will gravitate to is your hand. You want it to remain as clean and sparkly as the day you received it. However, caring for your diamond over time is very important. Don’t be fooled with old wives tales. We’ve heard ring cleaning advice over the years that makes us cringe at the …

Ask a Planner: Thank You Cards

Q: I’m excited about all the upcoming festivities surrounding my wedding but a little nervous about all the thank you cards that have to be sent out after. Can you give me a general time frame of what’s acceptable.A: It’s a great idea that you are putting some thought into this ahead of time. Depending on the number of events …

Ask a Planner: Wearing My Mother’s Wedding Gown

Q: My mother has always had this vision that I would wear her wedding dress when it came time for me to get married. This however is not what I envisioned. Her dress is beautiful and timeless, but just not my style. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but I don’t know how to approach the situation without feeling …

Ask a Planner: Fear of Being a Bridezilla

Q: I’m finding it really hard to get the things I want across to my bridesmaids. By “things”, I don’t mean material items, but just overall expectations. I have two bridesmaids that have visible tattoos that I would like to be covered but I just have such a hard time trying to tell them without sounding like a bridezilla. The …

Ask a Planner: Feeding Vendors

Q: I’m working on my final guest count to give to my caterer and I’m a little confused as to which vendors I’m supposed to feed. Am I expected to feed everyone? A: Although it may make you want to cringe at the added cost, etiquette and common courtesy states that you have to feed all major vendors. This includes …

Ask a Planner: Engagement Party 101

Q: My fiance and I have been engaged for two months. No one from our families have mentioned anything about having an engagement party. I would really like to have one but I am not sure who is supposed to host it and what having one really entails. Should we expect gifts, are favors a must?A: Congratulations on your recent …

Ask a Planner: Wedding Websites

Q: A few of our friends and family have asked if we have a wedding website set up. Honestly, it has never crossed my mind to do one but now I’m contemplating whether or not I should. Is this something that many couples do and will it really benefit us and our guests? A: Wedding websites are very popular these …

Ask a Planner: Battle of the Fathers

Q: I grew up with my step father who I love dearly, but my biological father has always been involved in my life. I would like to honor them both at the wedding but I’m not sure how to do it without making one of them feel bad. What do you suggest? A: I think it’s great that you want …

Ask a Planner: Second Photographer

Q: I’m starting to look into photography and have reviewed a few packages so far. I see that some packages say “main photographer and assistant” and some have “two photographers”. Do they mean the same thing? If not, do I absolutely need two photographers? A: This is a great question that you’ve asked. It is so important to understand exactly …

Ask a Planner- Hypoallergenic Flowers

Q: I have very bad allergies. They’re not just seasonal, but year round. I can tolerate having non floral centerpieces because I feel that there are a plethora of options with that department. However, I dream of a floral bouquet. People have suggested silk flowers, and although there are some with good quality, deep down it isn’t what I want. …