Q: We really want one of our good friends from college who also introduced us to each other, to sing our first dance song at the reception. It will mean something to us since she is responsible for us meeting plus she has an incredible voice! Are there any pros or cons of asking her to sing live at our wedding?
A: Of course we would all love to have the original artist to perform live for our first dance song. This would be a sentimental moment costing you THOUSANDS of dollars! The cost for a professional artist can range from $5,000 to the millions.
Many couples opt to have their first dance song sung live by a soloist from their band, or even hire one just for that one song. There are a few things to consider if you are going to go that route:
- Make sure the soloist has the same vibe and voice range of the artist of the song
- If instrumentals are being plaid by the band and not the exact instrumental recording from the song, hear how it sounds before the big day to ensure the song will still be your pick
- If you plan to orchestrate a dance routine to the song, DO NOT practice from the original artist. Ask your soloist for a copy of them performing the song so you may use as a reference.
All of these steps require preparation. It will take time for them to learn the song and get it just right! As a back up make sure to give your wedding planner a copy of the CD just in case you change your mind at the last moment or your friend gets cold feet.
Remember the most important thing is that your friend means something to you since she is responsible for this beautiful day. If she is willing to put in the effort to gift this to you, take her up on the offer.
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I think this advice is so on point. I am a singer myself and have performed at many weddings and I always try to make the song my own. So getting a copy of your first dance song performed by the soloist is a great idea. If you can't get a copy of the music, then see if you can arrange to do a rehearsal with the soloist.